GENTLENESS IS ‘DIGNIFIED STRENGTH.’

 

The moment we hear of ‘Gentleness’ we feel something soothing running through our system. The very word signifies so many qualities held within that. We always appreciate and want someone who is gentle with us. No harsh words…no tearing apart with contempt. Just a great calmness that pervades our body and mind.

On introspection, where does ‘gentleness’ come into the picture? In today’s world, can we afford to be gentle? Will not someone, or everyone, take advantage of that softness within us? Do we not doubt that our co-workers and peers will ride roughshod over us? Are we not scared  that we will become passive and weak?

We firmly believe that, “Only with a tough exterior, we can survive through each day”.

So ‘gentleness’, the finest and rarest of qualities in a person, is often mistaken for passivity or weakness of character.

Far from it.

We have to be ‘strong enough’ to be gentle. It requires great control, intense calm and incredible restraint of the mind to remain gentle. Especially in difficult situations. If we are gentle and forgiving with ourselves, we can extend the same attitude of gentleness to others too.

It is Responsibility with Power…a calmness that comes when we submit and surrender ourselves to the One Above. It is Strength in Great Control, Wisdom with Foresight and Strength with Dignity.

A calm voice holds no fear..The ‘Hidden Power’ in such Calmness leads us to Power, not Bondage.

Learn to be gentle, however difficult or slow the process may seem, for, it is well worth the trouble. Everything to gain and nothing to lose!!

BIBLE VERSE:

In the first place, we need to understand the significance of the word ‘Gentleness’, as it forms part of our daily lives.

Gentleness is a gift of the Holy Spirit and we experience it when we are guided by the Spirit. It is tender love, kind and understanding, considerate, good–natured and benevolent.

Gentleness abides in the Power of God. The Spirit leads us to be comfortable, compassionate, forgiving and merciful. Trains us to be wise with foresight and strong with dignity.

Learning to be gentle has a calming effect on us. It puts forth a calling upon us to strengthen the weak, heal  the sick and care for the poor. Its nobility is shown by its nature to serve others in all humility. The Holy Books call us to a living of compassion, forgiveness, patience and humility.

But again, the question is, can we incorporate ‘gentlenesss’ into our life on a daily basis or is it that only some people are born to be gentle ?

We have to nurture these qualities in us. We do not have to go soul searching for them as they are already in us as God–given talents. Do we not handle babies gently? Are we not compassionate towards animals? Would we not remember a mother’s gentle touch, however aged we become ? Does our heart not cry out when we see the poor struggling and suffering? Does not man reach out to his fellow beings when there is a crisis or disaster?

Yes. there is no doubt on that. We would not survive here without the Gentleness from The Creator Himself or the compassion or gentle consideration show to us by our fellow beings.

So, a reminder once more…’Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near’. (Philippians 4:5)

The God of Peace be with you all.

PRAYER:

To all those beautiful souls who yearn for the Gentle Spirit to guide and lead them through each day, read with me this prayer..be comforted and filled with the all-pervading Presence of the Spirit.

God be with you and bless you and your loved ones for all days to come.